It's that time of year again, an important season for retailers who are ready to sell anything and everything to reflect the spirit of the season. It's a time for parties and for dressing up, a time for meeting neighbors. But looking past the decorations and costumes, the traditions and parties, I have to ask the question: What's so happy about Halloween?
I don't participate in Halloween but I'm not militant about it. If someone else wants to celebrate it (and apparently most do), that's one's own business. I don't believe it's particularly dangerous to get involved in Halloween but I have my reasons for resisting it's attractions. I never had my children participate in Halloween activities, although as adults they can now make their own choices. They stayed home from school on Halloween party day and we made a point to have some other activity planned to get us out of the house the evening of October 31st. I never thought they would suffer from having missed out on these activities, and they never complained. I tried each year to explain in simple terms the reasoning behind my actions.
Whenever I mention my opposition to this celebration, I hear about all the fun and innocent parties 'for the kids', the cute Cinderella costumes, the harmless fun of giving candy to all the neighborhood youngsters. True, true and true. So why do I take a stand against Halloween participation? Here are my two simple reasons, the ones I tried to repeat for my kids as they were growing up, the ones I beg anyone to respond to in order to offer me clarification on some point I may be missing. The first is totally practical; the second is based on my spiritual beliefs.
#1 What does Halloween stand for? If it's a holiday, what's is being celebrated? Every other holiday I can think of celebrates or commemorates something, someone or some event. What is being celebrated on October 31st? The most obvious guess is the one that no one wants to admit, and I'll get to it later. So, basically, I just can't bring myself to get caught up in celebrating a non-holiday that has no meaning for me whatsoever.
#2 Defenders try to make this season seem harmless, citing the aforementioned Cinderella and Super Hero costumes, the Football Players and Ninja Warriors, the fun parties, pumpkin carving and neighborhood activities. But is that Halloween? If one thinks of the basic, most prevalent images for Halloween, one must admit that they speak strongly of fear, death and evil. Cinderella doesn't represent Halloween -- Ghosts, witches, skeletons, bats, monsters, spiders and tombstones do. Fear, Death, Evil. Why would I celebrate such things? You may say you 'don't believe in witches or ghosts', but then again why celebrate them? Here is my position: I am a Christian, a follower of Jesus; Jesus who, according to my beliefs and the Bible, came to earth to bring peace, life and righteousness. These three concepts that characterize the reign of Jesus over a Christian's life are in direct opposition to the representative images of Halloween. That is why I cannot participate in any Halloween activities.
Once again, these are just my thoughts; I'd like to hear yours. Thanks for reading. I'll try to be more timely in presenting subsequent posts.































